Disappointed

I'm just a little bit disappointed today. Our interview with LDS Family Services just got rescheduled for next Friday. Our caseworker said that she had an emergency come up this morning with a birth mother and the birth mom lives about 2 1/2 hours away. Long and short of it is that all her appointments for today got cancelled, including ours. I'm pretty bummed. It's really hard when you feel like every week you wait is just another week longer until we receive a child. But I think the Lord continues to try and teach me to be patient. In fact, it feels like every lesson the Lord has been trying to teach me for the last 3 years is patience. So I'm going to be Captain Obvious here and say that I guess I need to stop being so demanding and leave it in Heavenly Father's capable and caring hands. So that's what I'm doing. I'm sure there's a purpose in this. I guess that just means that I'll have another opportunity to get all dressed up and something to look forward to next week!

I'm spreading the word! Will you join me?

November is National Adoption Month, and after reading a friend's recent blog post, I wanted to start spreading the word early. The following story is just one of the many reasons why we need to educate people that adoption is an option.

"http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,430541,00.html

Hour-Old Newborn Found Alive in Miami Trash Bin, RescuedTuesday, September 30, 2008

MIAMI — A newborn boy is safe after being found in a trash bin in Miami. Authorities say the child was apparently only an hour or so old. He was found in a trash bin Monday night when a janitor taking out the trash heard the baby crying. The boy's umbilical cord was still attached. The child appeared to be healthy but was taken to a hospital to be monitored. Florida's Safe Haven law was passed in 2000 in response to a rash of babies left to die in canals and trash bins. The law allows a parent to surrender a newborn, no questions asked, to any hospital emergency room, open fire station or other facility capable of providing emergency care."

6.1 MILLION people in the United States suffer from infertility. Can you imagine how many of those people would have gladly accepted that abandoned baby into their homes to love and care for? And the aforementioned case, sadly, is not unique. This horrifying crime is happening all over the United States! Worse than that, many of these babies do not survive this abuse!

There are so many happy families that could be united if these pregnant women were educated about the fact that they have an option to place their baby for adoption. I cannot speak for all adoption agencies. However, I know that through LDS Family Services, the pregnant woman is not only provided with a family that is stable and happy, but the birth mother also receives counseling, and access to medical and other essential needs. Imagine if the mother in the story above had chosen to place her baby for adoption rather than abandoning him in a trash bin. Rather than being chased by the police, she would be respected for the difficult decision she had made. Isn't that a much better option? I would think so. Do you?

Please help me spread the word. This is about education. In this case, ignorance is most certainly NOT bliss. If you know anyone, or if you know someone who knows someone, who is in a situation where they might consider placing their baby for adoption, please let them know about us or about any of the other families who want to adopt. I know that with your help, we can be the answer to somebody's prayers, and they will be the answer to ours.

The most amazing husband ever!

I seriously have the most amazing husband of all time.

I have been wanting one of those old-school vanities. You know, the ones that you can sit at to do your hair and makeup junk? Anyhow, hubby took me shopping at pretty much every furniture store in town looking for one. We got the same answer everywhere- we don't sell that kind of thing. That day I learned just how old-fashioned (a.k.a. un-hip) I am. So we looked online, and the only vanities I liked cost a thousand dollars plus five hundred dollars shipping to boot. Hellllooooo!!! My husband is going to grad school and I make about $9.50 an hour. Needless to say, we can't afford that. Yes I was disappointed, but not too much. It just became one of those "someday" things.

My husband surprised me though! He decided to get creative and look at D.I. (Deseret Industries is sort of like Good Will but much cleaner.) He found a desk, a chair, and a mirror. Granted all of them were in crappy condition, but that didn't phase him. He decided since they were sturdy he could strip them down and refinish them to make them work. So this is my new vanity! If you had seen the condition of these pieces before, you wouldn't believe they were the same thing.

Isn't my hubby amazing? He loves me a heck of a lot to do this for me!

Adoption Interview Scheduled!

We just wanted to update you on our little piece of exciting news. Today we scheduled an appointment for our intake interview with LDSFS. Woohoo! We're meeting with our caseworker on October 3rd. That's a week from Friday! I'm already starting to feel nervous.

Our Big Project

For about 8 months, hubby and I have been undertaking a mammoth-sized project. Well, it was mammoth-sized to us anyway. If you are a member of my extended family, then you will most likely recognize where we got the idea from. Anyhow, here's the quick story behind it for all of you who aren't members of our biological family. When I was little, my grandma made one of these little rocking chairs for each of her kids' families. As a child, it was one of the most precious, prized toys in our home. At least to me anyway. I have many fond memories of family movie nights, reading, rocking back and forth as far as I could go (nearly killing myself), all sitting in that chair. So, thank you Grandma! And because I loved it so much, hubby and I took a pattern from it (yes, it's still around at my parents' place and in great condition). So far, we have made and given away seven little chairs to our family. We're also going to make one for each of our children when we have them. Including our little angel in heaven. His chair will remain in our room with his teddy bear and blanket to keep it warm. Here are a few pictures of some of the chairs we have made so far along with some of my nieces and nephews who received them. Hubby cuts the pieces of the chair, stains them, and laquers them. I hand paint them and burn a message into the underside of the seat. Some people have suggested that we could sell them if we came up with our own cartoon designs to paint on the back. I'm not sure if there would really be an interest in purchasing them. What do you think? Maybe we could do this to fundraise for our adoption?

A little tidbit

The adoption secretary told us that we are currently being assigned a caseworker, and we should hear from him/her by the end of next week. Of course, it is LDSFS, so that means it could be an additional week longer than what they say, but it's still exciting to us!

A small step forward in the adoption process

We've made a little progress as far as the adoption process goes. We finished filling out the initial application, and our bishop filled out the questionnaire and sent it in. Now I guess we just wait to hear from LDS Family Services. Obviously, this is just the beginning, and we have a LONG road ahead of us. But we're excited that we got this much done! It feels good to make progress.

As far as our weight-loss goes, we had disappointing results on Saturday. Neither of us lost any weight. I guess we hit a plateau. But I won't let it discourage me. I know it happens to everybody. I'm determined to make this week better though.

So here are the results so far:

Me: 18 lbs lost
Hubby: 9 lbs lost

Other than that, nothing much is going on. I'm still loving my job. Today I taught one of my clients the beginning of the Veggie Tales song. He thought it was great, and I got a kick out of it. Every day I'm amazed how much I learn from my clients. A few days ago, the parent of one of our clients passed away. Today was her first day back at the center and it was so touching to watch all of the other clients hug her and try to cheer her up. I felt like I was witnessing true Christlike charity in action.

Well, I suppose that's it for now!

Another week of success!

We have had another successful week with weight-loss! For the first time EVER I actually believe that it is possible to achieve my goal. Here are the newest stats as of Saturday morning.

My week's weight loss: 3 lbs
My new total: 18 lbs lost
And... drumroll please....
Hubby's week's weight loss: 9 lbs
Hubby's new total: 9 lbs lost

Pretty amazing for his first week, huh?!? I am so jealous. I've been working on losing weight for literally months, and in one week Hubby accomplishes half of my total. I'm so proud of him though.

I'm also excited because I got a new job! Tomorrow will be my second day. I am responsible for supervising and assisting disabled adults to become more independent. I think it will be a really rewarding job. Some of the best parts are: it pays well, the hours are great (M-F 9:00 am-3:00 pm), and I have all holidays and weekends off. This job is an answer to our prayers. Now I can earn some money in a job I love, and still get to spend lots of time with hubby.